When Should You Consider Relationship Coaching?

You sense your relationship is in trouble You and your spouse are emotionally disconnected; this can happen             even when living under the same roof You are currently separated and may have little contact with your spouse There has been infidelity or an emotional affair

You find yourselves having the same old arguments about sex,   money, communication, work, friends, family...without resolution   You have a strong relationship but want to further develop skills              and tools to have an even better relationship

Working with Harriette
As a relationship coach, Harriette is committed to helping couples resolve their differences and rediscover the enthusiasm and passion in their relationships.

Her approach is based on these core principles:

VALUES - Your values are what is important to you in relationships. Values include honesty, trust, respect, security, etc. Harriette works with you to identify the values you share and helps you build your relationship around them.

VISION - The shared meaning that you have as a couple. This includes the rituals, rules, and roles that make up your unique relationship. Harriette helps you become mindful of each other's dreams and vision for your relationship and to communicate your values about these issues to one another.

CLEAR COMMUNICATION - The key ingredient in happy relationships is clear communication. Good communication means having the impact you intended to have; that is, it is clear and precise. Harriette teaches you the skills and provides you with the tools to communicate clearly and precisely.

COMMITMENT - The expectation that you will stay in the relationship no matter what the difficulties. It is necessary for each partner to take full responsibility to rebuild or reinforce the building blocks that make the relationship solid. In addition to a shared vision, values and clear communication, a committed relationship requires cooperation, collaboration and celebration. Harriette works with you to fulfill your joint objectives as a couple and a family. She teaches you to approach conflict with an attitude of shared responsibility, and shows you how to make time for each other so intimacy and joy becomes a natural result of your relationship.

If you are tired of fighting and ready to work towards success, Harriette can help. Both individual coaching and coaching groups are offered to fit your financial needs. To schedule an appointment, simply contact me today.